
Deteksipost.com – Even though Najwa Shihab was fired from the Najwa Eye Event … his father (Prof. Quraish Shihab) provided Najwa Shihab with good advice.
_ * Prof. Quraish Shihab to his daughter Najwa * ._
_ “Luck” sometimes plays its part in human life, although it often doesn’t make sense. Because that’s their destiny.
_Maybe your delay from a trip is your safety. It may be that the delay in your marriage is a blessing. Perhaps being fired from your job is a maslahat. Maybe until now you have not been gifted with a child that is the goodness in your life. Maybe you hate something but it turns out it’s good for you, because Allah knows best, whereas you don’t know.
_Therefore, do not be anxious about everything that happens to you, because everything is with the permission of Allah.
_Do not complain too much because it will only increase anxiety. Be grateful, Alhamdulillah, that will bring happiness. Keep saying Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, until you are no longer able to say it.
_As long as we can sleep without sleeping pills, we can still wake up with only one sound, we wake up without seeing any medical devices attached to our bodies, that is a sign that we are living well. Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, say it until you can no longer say it.
_Do not always look back because there is a past that haunts you. Don’t always look ahead because sometimes there is a future that makes you nervous. But look up because there is a God who makes you happy.
_You don’t have to have many friends for you to be popular, the lion the king of the jungle often walks alone. But sheep always flock. The fingers do the same; The little finger, ring finger, middle finger, index finger were all lined up side by side except for her thumb which was the farthest out of the four. But pay attention you will be surprised if all the fingers will not function properly without having their own thumbs away from them.
_Therefore, actually what counts is not the number of friends who are around you, but the amount of love and benefits that are around you, even though you are far from them.
_By busy in work will save yourself from three problems; namely boredom, humiliation and poverty. I never knew there was a success formula, but I realized that “the failure formula is everyone’s original attitude.”
_A friend is like a rung, maybe he takes you up or turns you down on the other hand, so be careful which rung you are walking on.
_This life will continue whether you laugh or cry, so don’t make your life full of sorrow which is of no use at all. Take care of yourself, forgive, and leave human affairs to God, because you, them, and all of us, will all return to Him.
_Do not leave your prayers even. Because there, millions of people who are underground, are hoping that if they are allowed to return, their lives will prostrate to Allah SWT even once prostrate. Don’t always rely on love, because it rarely happens. Don’t lean on humans because they are leaving. But rely on Allah SWT, Almighty God, because He is the one who determines everything (Prof. Quraish Shihab).





